Act like Dominatrix

A dominatrix is a female who takes the dominant role in a bondage and discipline, sadism and masochism  relationship. Knowing how to act like a domme will help you stay "on top" of the situation. Proper behavior, communication, and procedure is incredibly crucial not only in fostering a nurturing relationship, but also avoiding any physical or psychological trauma in either party.

Get the right clothes. A full-bodied (often black) catsuit is a mainstay of fetish and bondage culture. There's a difference between a dominant lifestyle and fetishism, but the skintight black bodysuit remains an iconic garment in both communities. Make sure your suit is made from leather, or rubber latex.

Invest in some good high heels, such as thigh-high stiletto boots. Like the catsuit, these boots represent dominatrix attire to mainstream culture. Platform boots can also be worn. Try Ellie shoes heels, its pointed heels reflects your secret, sexual nature. 

Wear a corset. A corset is a close-fitting undergarment (often worn as outerwear) that helps shape (and hold) your body. A bondage corset has become a staple in fetish wear. A bustier can also be worn as an alternative. 

Other accoutrements associated with being a domina, include, Fishnet stockings or garter stockings, gloves try finger-less or elbow length, a whip or riding crop.

Keep in mind that it is not the clothes that make a domme rather it is her self confidence, self awareness, and ability to control the conversation. The women in tight revealing clothes is more an image that can bring out the wrong behaviors in male, as it can simply reinforce that it is all about him. Instead, make it clear that it is all about you and your pleasures and amusements.