A dominatrix is a female who takes the dominant role in a bondage and
discipline, sadism and masochism relationship. Knowing how to act like a domme will help you stay "on top" of the
situation. Proper behavior, communication, and procedure is incredibly
crucial not only in fostering a nurturing relationship, but also
avoiding any physical or psychological trauma in either party.
Get the right clothes. A full-bodied (often black)
catsuit is a mainstay of fetish and bondage culture. There's a
difference between a dominant lifestyle and fetishism, but the skintight
black bodysuit remains an iconic garment in both communities. Make sure
your suit is made from leather, or rubber latex.
Invest in some good high heels, such as thigh-high stiletto boots. Like the catsuit, these boots represent dominatrix attire to mainstream culture. Platform boots can also be worn. Try Ellie shoes heels, its pointed heels reflects your secret, sexual nature.
Wear a corset. A corset is a close-fitting
undergarment (often worn as outerwear) that helps shape (and hold) your
body. A bondage corset has become a staple in fetish wear. A bustier can
also be worn as an alternative.
Other accoutrements associated with being a domina, include, Fishnet stockings or garter stockings, gloves try finger-less or elbow length, a whip or riding crop.
Keep in mind that it is not the clothes that make a
domme rather it is her self confidence, self awareness, and ability to
control the conversation. The women in tight revealing clothes is
more an image that can bring out the wrong behaviors in male, as it can
simply reinforce that it is all about him. Instead, make it clear that
it is all about you and your pleasures and amusements.